Here are a few things to add to your wish list. I've tried some, not others. No commissions gathered here and no promises, but I think you'll find something you like. Write me with your recommendations and reviews, so I can add to the list!
It wouldn't be me if I didn't celebrate my favorite sex toy store. Don't worry, they ship! But if you're in Portland stop by and enjoy a safe, cheerful, sex-positive environment (and the inspiration for my next novel.)
The oh-nut protects a woman from uncomfortably deep penetration during intercourse. I haven't tried it, but I do know that different days require different dildos. A girl's not always ready for the Titan, but if your male partner is too big to accommodate comfortably this could help.
This is a great brand. Reliable. Classy. Innovative. They've got a great warranty too. There is a one year warranty, but if you have a problem any time during the first ten years of your toy's life, you can return it for a 50% discount off your next item. And you will want to buy a next item!
Okay, the name is corny as hell, but this all-natural lube comes recommended by the owner of As You Like It in Eugene, OR. Lube makes everything more fun, and getting the right lube is important! I mean it. Read more about lubes under Resources & Education
Ida by Lelo
So I'd been using Ida for years before realizing she was meant to be used during penetration. That was a fabulous discovery, but it speaks to Ida's powers that she was fantastic before I discovered her full potential.